Sometimes my loving parents and brother’s and my sister’s help out my budget, by treating us to special events, attractions, dinners and movies. If your children are well behaved and get good grades it happens more often. I remind my kids to send thank you notes (heck texts n emails work too) for gifts and to say thank you as often as possible. Getting good grades and awards at school also get very nice donations :), that we never expect or ask for.
Last summer 2012 my brother suggested we all go to Universal Studios & Venice Beach for a couple a days. I said “OK, will split it”. We went and had a blast, 2 nights & 3 days of fun. Upon return I asked my brother what was my share of the cost, he said “Nothing $0” brother, “your kids behaved so well, its my treat”. Lets do it again next summer.
Update, my brother reminded me that our summer trip was coming up and we were going to CA. Adventure Park this year. 2013 We cant wait!
My parents and my other siblings do allot of nice things as well. And I always remind my girls of how proud I am, of how well the behave and say “thank you” and send notes for gifts.
Signs of appreciation go a long way!
Awesome buy, awesome hat. We even bought one for Sage’s friend whom she had an innovation to a b-day party. We bought her a cool Panda picture t-shirt 80’s color green n grey stripe shirt $4.99 at “Fallas” one of my go to stores mentioned in my previous blog.
I call ahead and ask the mom what there kid is into. Then I can purchase the appropriate gift. Then I ask if I can bring my other daughters and myself to the party. Once I have the details I look for ways to budget the trip, I do it.
Cost $5.99 – $10.99, depending on the gift.
This is always a win win, free food, free drink and free invitations to other b-day parties. Hopefully they will show up to my girls b-day parties, the more guest’s………. the more the presents !!
The picture is of my youngest (Sage is her name), she wanted a new dress (as they all do every year) for Easter Sunday. Now keep in mind I have 3 girls so everything I buy is done X times 3. And since the like to copy each other everything is X’s 3, tech toys, jewelry iPod, dsi, dolls, kids meals, movie tickets and you name it. That is the main reason I’m always looking was to save $$$
So I take them to one of my 3 spots for Deep Discounts on clothes from socks and panties, to school uniforms and fancy dresses. I go to “Fallas, Factory 2-U” or “Susie’s Deals” or “Toda Moda”. Well my youngest found a velvety dress normally $24.99 on sale for $11.99. And my middle on found an outfit (she wanted casual) pants and top for $9.99. Yeah!! My oldest was bought a nice dress from her mom my ex. Yeah, I did not have to actually buy a third dress but I still paid for it I think. As she gets child support from me and does not work at a paying job.
This week I got a call from my ex, “Can you buy the middle child a dress for her upcoming graduation?” “She needs it now for pictures” OK I said no prob. I pick up my middle girl (Venice is her name) and say, “Hey V lets go to “Fallas” and get a dress” To my surprise she said, ” No, I want to go to the mall daddy, please” I imagined $$$ flying out of my pocket. I said OK
After all the fancy stores and kids boutiques she found the ONE! And of all places it was Sears in the mall. Normally $54.99 it was on clearance for $27.49 !! yeah!!! So it goes to show there are deals at allot of places, you just have to look around and compare.